Most Important Things I've Ever Learned (About Love)- #3

I used to take unloving situations (in my earlier marriage) very personally.When my first husband had a hard time feeling love for me or saying "I love you" & spoke of his concern about ever being capable of loving me, I used to feel a sting so deep in my heart that it physically hurt.  I thought it was because of me.  I thought I was truly defective in some way, or inadequate, or not beautiful